Dr.Laura Bella
Premarital Counseling Session
Marriage is a major step in the life of any person. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman; both need to be prepared for marriage. You must be absolutely sure that you are ready to change your life and that you have made the right choice.
I am an experienced psychologist, and I offer you online pre-marriage therapy.
Premarital counseling will help you learn more about your partner and teach you to hear each other, trust and solve problems effectively.
According to statistics, those people who have had premarital counseling are 10 times more likely to have a successful long-term relationship.
- By participating in premarital counseling, couples can identify and manage their expectations for marriage. They can also improve their communication and conflict management skills, which can help prevent misunderstandings and conflicts arising from unmet expectations.
- In addition to communication and conflict management, premarital counseling can teach couples how to discuss difficult topics like parenting, spirituality, and money. By developing a shared understanding and approach to these important issues, couples can reduce the likelihood of future conflicts and strengthen their relationship.
- Ultimately, premarital counseling can help couples build a sound relationship designed to last a lifetime. This can include establishing a solid foundation of trust and intimacy, developing practical problem-solving skills, and creating a shared vision for their future together.
About Responsibility..
What responsibilities do you and your partner have at home? How do you provide your family and take responsibilities for all issues? Or are you responsible for the atmosphere in the family and at home?
It is essential to set up life in the family properly, so that later there will be no disappointment that one of the partners refuses to help, for example. It is necessary to distribute chores equally. It is important to define what role suits you better and make you feel comfortable and follow it.
I will try to help you improve your life and you will be ready for life together.
Sense of Humor
These questions are very important for relations. It is a good advantage to have the same sense of humor with your partner as it helps to overcome troubles and make the family life easier and happier.
Learn the love language of your partner.
There are different ways to reveal your love to your partner. Everyone chooses his own one to show his love and affection. Someone is very tender to his partner, someone expresses his affection using loving and pleasant words and someone displays his love through gifts, actions and time devoted to the partner.
What is your love language?
Language of Love
I will help you define your love language that will help you to show your love and attitude to your partner more vividly.
During the session we will analyze reasons and consequences, your childhood traumas and resentments. It will help you not to carry them over to your new relationship.
Friends.
It is important to understand what you feel about friends. Is there anything you don't like? Perhaps one of you expects extra attention and is not ready to share his soul mate with friends. We will discuss the importance of friends. Let's choose a compromise that suits both of you.
Discuss Financial Issues
Pre-marriage counseling can help you discuss financial issues and goals.
Every couple needs to have a person nearby who shares and supports his goals. Common goals can unite the family, strengthen the relations and give the energy to overcome troubles. Besides, common goals contribute to mutual understanding and respect.
You should discuss the personal aims of each of you and the general goals of your family. Do they contradict each other or do they coincide?
Divorce Prevention
Premarital counseling is a great way to prepare you for the future and strengthen your commitments to each other before marriage. It will also increase your overall happiness and may lower your chances of divorce compared to couples who get married without any prior therapy.
We will discuss all these issues at premarital counseling.
Premarital Couples Counseling is the right decision to ensure a long-lasting marriage built on a foundation of trust and understanding.
